How do you know its bad?

This is something I have to keep asking myself in times like these. Our Pastor Charlie McMahan, at Southbrook Christian Church did a sermon once that repeated this question. Some things that seem bad to us may not be bad. For us to say that when it was decided by God before I was created that these events would happen to me as bad is....well, its wrong. While it seems bad, how do i know its bad? And if I had gotten to keep this job or was offered a job how would I know its was good? We never really know.

So if I could just stay out of the way of Gods plans for my life I would be ok I think. I try to but it lasts a few minutes. I just want the weight off my chest so I know I am not trusting God 100% with this because I still have that weight. It is so hard when like I said, it seems like everything is so...bad. I keep trying to fix it with my day dreaming of how I want it to be right now. I second guess decisions Trevor and I made in the past that could be responsible for the current outcome. I can't do this.

Thanks Jessica for the comment. Sometimes the littlest things are an encouragement in trying times.